When Expectations Are Not Met

Author: Ayodeji Oludapo

Date: December 23, 2024


Scriptures

"The hope of the righteous brings joy, but the expectation of the wicked will perish." — Proverbs 10:28 (ESV)

"Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life." — Proverbs 13:12 (ESV)


Devotional Thoughts 

Expectations are a natural part of life. We all set goals, dream dreams, and envision outcomes we desire. As the year draws to a close, it’s common to reflect on what we hoped to achieve and what remains unfulfilled. While some celebrate victories, others wrestle with disappointment and questions like, “Why didn’t this happen for me?”

The Bible acknowledges that unmet expectations can leave us feeling weary and heartbroken (Proverbs 13:12). Yet, it also reassures us that God is faithful and that the expectations of the righteous will not be cut short (Proverbs 23:18). It’s important to remember that God’s timing is different from ours. What seems like a delay is often preparation for something better. 

Consider the story of Abraham. God promised him descendants as numerous as the stars, yet he and Sarah waited years before Isaac was born (Genesis 21:1-3). During that waiting period, they faced doubts and struggles. However, God’s promise was fulfilled at the appointed time. Their story reminds us that God’s promises never fail—even when delays challenge our faith. 

Unmet expectations are not a sign of God’s absence but an invitation to trust Him more deeply. Sometimes, God uses delays to test and strengthen our faith, refine our desires, or redirect us toward something greater.


Practical Reflections


Closing Thoughts

Unmet expectations can feel like heavy burdens, but they also offer an opportunity to grow in faith and perseverance. God has not forgotten your prayers or desires. While we may not always understand His ways, we can trust that He is working behind the scenes for our good (Romans 8:28). The journey of waiting is not wasted—it is shaping us into people of faith who rely on God’s strength rather than our own. 

When expectations are not met, don’t lose hope. Instead, lean into God’s promises and allow Him to work in ways that exceed your understanding. He is the God who turns disappointments into testimonies.


Prayer

Heavenly Father, Thank You for being a faithful God whose promises never fail. I bring my unmet expectations before You today. You know the desires of my heart and the burdens I carry. Help me to trust Your timing and to rest in the assurance that You are working all things for my good. Strengthen my faith, fill my heart with peace, and teach me to wait patiently for Your perfect will. May I always remember that You are my hope and my future. In Jesus’ name, Amen.