✍️ Ayodeji Oludapo
📅 May 12, 2025
Scripture
"Do not be misled: 'Bad company corrupts good character.'" — 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." — Romans 12:2a (NIV)
Much of what we do, say, and even think is shaped by forces we rarely notice. These “unseen influences”—our culture, upbringing, traditions, peer groups, social media, and even childhood experiences—are like currents beneath the surface of our lives. They guide our values, our reactions, our goals, and even our faith.
Sometimes, the influence is positive—a godly parent who prayed every night, a mentor who taught you integrity, or a church community that poured love into your life. But other times, the influence is subtle and harmful—peer pressure, cultural values that conflict with God’s truth, or emotional patterns rooted in wounds we never healed.
Paul warns the Corinthians not to be deceived: who we spend time with and what we expose ourselves to will shape us, often without our awareness. Similarly, in Romans, he challenges believers not to conform—a word that implies being shaped passively—but to be transformed, which requires intentional renewal of the mind by God's Word.
Rehoboam’s story (1 Kings 12) doesn’t get much airtime in sermons, but it’s deeply relevant. He inherited a golden opportunity: peace, wealth, and a united kingdom. But the voices around him—his peers’ advice and his own ego—outweighed the voice of wisdom and humility.
This shows how unseen influences don’t have to be loud to be powerful. Pride. Insecurity. Social pressure. These are the quiet currents that can drive our biggest decisions in the wrong direction if we’re not paying attention.
Ask yourself today:
Who or what is shaping your thoughts and values?
Are there unseen influences in your life pulling you away from God's truth or peace?
Are you spending more time feeding your spirit with God’s Word or with the world’s opinions?
Sometimes we need to pause and take inventory of the quiet voices we’re listening to. Culture can normalize what God calls sin. Friends can influence us to lower our standards. Even our own inner dialogue, shaped by past trauma or pride, can steer us subtly off course.
Yet God calls us to be intentional influencers—people who are transformed by His Word and Spirit, not conformed to the world. When we walk closely with Him, we become people who influence others with truth and grace, rather than being unknowingly shaped by worldly pressures.
Rehoboam’s story (1 Kings 12) doesn’t get much airtime in sermons, but it’s deeply relevant. He inherited a golden opportunity: peace, wealth, and a united kingdom. But the voices around him—his peers’ advice and his own ego—outweighed the voice of wisdom and humility.
This shows how unseen influences don’t have to be loud to be powerful. Pride. Insecurity. Social pressure. These are the quiet currents that can drive our biggest decisions in the wrong direction if we’re not paying attention.
The unseen influences in your life matter deeply. But the good news is, God offers us His Spirit and His Word as stronger influences—ones that give life, peace, and purpose. Ask the Lord to expose any hidden influences that are not of Him. Let Him do the deep work of transformation from the inside out.
Father, I come before You asking for discernment. Help me to see the hidden influences in my life that are shaping me—whether from my culture, my past, or the people around me. I invite You, Holy Spirit, to renew my mind and transform my character. Let my life be shaped not by the world but by Your truth. Give me the courage to walk in Your ways, even when it's countercultural. And may I be a positive influence in the lives of others, pointing them always to You. In Jesus’ name, amen.