The Praise of Men

Author: Ayodeji Oludapo

Date: October 9, 2024

Scripture: "Nevertheless even among the rulers many believed in Him, but because of the Pharisees they did not confess Him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue; for they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God." — John 12:42-43 (NKJV)

Devotional Thoughts

The longing for acceptance and praise from others is something many of us struggle with, even though we may not openly admit it. We naturally want to fit in and feel validated by those around us. There is nothing inherently wrong with seeking approval from others—but when it becomes the driving force behind our actions, it can take us away from the path God has set before us.

In John 12, we see a powerful illustration of this struggle. Many among the religious leaders believed in Jesus, but fear of the Pharisees kept them silent. The desire for human approval became a barrier between them and openly professing their faith. Their fear of being ostracized, of losing their place in society, and of not receiving recognition ultimately outweighed their commitment to God.

In our own lives, the "praise of men" can show up in subtle ways—from tailoring our words to please others, compromising our values to avoid criticism, or even neglecting our faith to fit in with those around us. We must remember that God desires authenticity, and His approval is far more valuable than the fleeting praise of people. The applause of this world fades, but the approval of our Heavenly Father lasts into eternity.

Practical Reflections

Think about areas in your life where the approval of others has caused you to compromise your convictions. Are you hesitant to share your faith at work or with friends because of fear of what others might think? Are there choices you have made that were driven by a need for recognition rather than a desire to honour God?

The world often tells us that success is measured by accolades, likes, and social status, but God calls us to a higher standard. To live a life that pleases Him, we need to be willing to step out in faith even when it costs us the praise of people. Let us remember that God sees our hearts and delights in our obedience, even when no one else is watching.

Closing Thoughts

Living for the praise of God rather than the praise of men is not always easy, but it brings a deep sense of peace and fulfillment. When we align our hearts with God and seek His approval above all, we experience freedom from the constant pressure of trying to please everyone. Let us strive to live authentically, knowing that the One who matters most loves us and delights in our faithfulness.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, help me to seek Your praise above all else. Free me from the desire to live for the approval of others, and give me the courage to stand for You, even when it means standing alone. Teach me to value Your words over the applause of this world. Let my heart be set on pleasing You in all that I do. In Jesus' name, Amen.