❤️ Spiritual Discipline: A Loving Correction

Author: Ayodeji Oludapo

Date: March 28, 2025


đź“– Scripture:

"My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline, and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in." — Proverbs 3:11-12 (NIV)

✨Devotional Thoughts

Spiritual discipline is not a topic we often get excited about. It's rarely comfortable and often misunderstood. Yet, it is one of the most profound expressions of God’s love for His children. Just as a parent disciplines their child not out of anger but out of deep care, our Heavenly Father corrects, refines, and sometimes breaks us in order to rebuild us stronger in faith and character.

Discipline from God can take many forms. Sometimes it’s a season of isolation where we feel set apart from the noise, relationships, or comforts we once leaned on. Other times, it comes as a stripping away of pride, distractions, or even blessings that we have unknowingly made into idols. The pain of these moments is real, but it is not without purpose. God does not inflict pain to destroy us, but to realign our hearts with His.

Jonah, called by God to preach to Nineveh, fled in the opposite direction. In love, God pursued him—not with thunder or a sword, but with a storm and a fish. Inside the belly of that great fish, Jonah was isolated, deprived of everything, and utterly broken. And yet, that place of discipline became his place of clarity and recommissioning. God's discipline brought Jonah back, not to shame him, but to save him and those he was sent to.

Years ago, God revealed to me not to take a business contract from a group, but out of desperation and the gain, I took it. The aftermath effect was that God disciplined me, and I paid dearly for my disobedience. This was not out of anger but out of love. When such a situation came up years later, I quickly knew what to do, which saved me the pain, and God opened a better path for me.


🔍 Practical Reflection

Let us not resent spiritual discipline. Instead, let us recognize it as a sacred tool of love—a divine method of correction and formation. If God did not care, He would leave us to wander. But because He loves deeply, He intervenes.


🕊️ Closing Thoughts

Discipline is not rejection; it is redirection. It is not punishment; it is preparation. It may come with tears, silence, and loss, but it will also lead to strength, holiness, and restored intimacy with the Father. Embrace it. God is not trying to break you down—He’s building you up.


🙏 Prayer

Father, thank You for loving me enough to discipline me. Even when it hurts, help me to trust Your heart behind it. Teach me to see correction not as punishment but as proof of Your deep love and desire for me to grow. Strengthen me in seasons of discipline. Let my heart remain soft, my ears open, and my spirit willing. In Jesus' name, Amen.