In the World, Not of the World
Author: Ayodeji Oludapo
Date: October 12, 2024
Scripture: "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will." (Romans 12:2 NIV)
Devotional Thoughts
Being in the world but not of it is a constant struggle. We live, work, and grow in an environment filled with conflicting voices and pressures. Society offers us countless opportunities to conform, and at times, the pressure to fit in can be overwhelming. I remember vividly the time I faced it head-on when I was younger. There was a phase when I found myself surrounded by friends who smoked and drank. Initially, I resisted, but eventually, there were moments when I gave in—I wanted to be liked, to be part of the crowd, to feel accepted.
But in those moments of compromise, there was always a quiet voice that reminded me, "You are made for more than this." Despite my failings, God's grace kept finding me, drawing me back. He gently but firmly reminded me that I wasn't meant to blend in with the world—I was set apart. It was His grace that gave me the strength to break away from those habits, to choose a path that honoured Him, even if it meant standing alone.
The truth is, the world will constantly present us with opportunities to conform to its ways, and sometimes, the pressure will come from those closest to us. It may be friends, co-workers, or even family members. But as followers of Christ, we are called to a different standard—one that doesn’t change with trends or depend on the approval of others. This standard is about walking in the light, standing firm, and trusting that God's way is ultimately the best way, even when it feels lonely.
Practical Reflection
Reflect on the areas in your life where you feel pressured to conform. It could be in the workplace, among friends, or even in your own habits and mindset. Ask yourself, "Am I trying to fit in at the cost of my faith? Am I compromising on my values to avoid standing out?"
Consider how you might stand firm in your faith when faced with the pressure to conform. This doesn't mean isolating yourself from the world—Jesus Himself dined with sinners, He was present among people. But He never let the world change Him; instead, He changed the world around Him. We can be present, loving, and involved while maintaining the integrity of our faith.
Closing Thoughts
It’s okay to feel the pressure—it’s a reminder that you’re in the world. But it’s also a call to be different, to stand for what is right even when it’s unpopular. The world needs people who are willing to shine, to be salt, and to bring hope. Lean into God's grace when you feel weak. Remember, He’s not calling you to perfection; He's calling you to steadfastness. He’s calling you to be in the world but not of it—to be His hands and feet without compromising your heart.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your grace, which finds me even in my moments of compromise. I ask for Your strength today, to stand firm when the world's pressures seem heavy. Help me not to conform to ungodly standards but to be transformed by Your Word, renewing my mind daily. Let my life reflect You, and may I stand for what is true, even when it’s difficult. Thank You for reminding me that I am set apart, and thank You for Your grace that meets me when I fall short. In Jesus' name, Amen.